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cutest book ever


I’m usually pretty terrible at Christmas shopping, meaning I’m definitely not one of those people who has my shopping completed already. But there is one gift I’ve purchased for both my kids that I’m pretty psyched about.

It’s this adorable custom book by Lost My Name, titled The Little Boy/Girl Who Lost His/Her Name. I especially love it because my kids will be the ones who never find anything with their names on it.

You enter the kid’s name and gender and pick their character and the book is generated for you. 

Lost My Name Book

Your kid encounters different creatures throughout the story who give them each of the letters in their name. Holden meets a hippo, ostrich, lion, dragon, elephant and narwhal (!). Gatsby meets a giant, aardvark, troll, octopus, bear and yeti (!)

Lost My Name Book

Seriously. So cute.

Lost My Name Book

If you use this link, you’ll get 15% off your order (and I’ll eventually get a free book!).

Happy shopping!

a “great” gender (and name) reveal


So along with the nontraditional reveal for the gender reveal party, we went with a nontraditional theme as well… to go with the nontraditional name we’ve chosen for our baby boy. See if you can guess it before I tell you…

My mom’s friend made us this adorable “Hello Old Sport” chalk art sign that we displayed on the dessert table (which will eventually hang in the nursery).

Hello Old Sport Chalkboard Sign for a Gatsby Party and Nursery @ohbotherblog

JUST A VINTAGE SOUL Signs by Sue •Hand•Lettered• •Original•Designs• •Custom•Orders• •Special•Occasions• •Made in the US•of•A• ~sjavitt@gmail.com ~717-495-3423

The cupcakes were painstakingly handcrafted by Jess at Ladybug Baking Company.

Great Gatsby Cupcakes for a Roaring 20's Party @ohbotherblog

Sensing a theme?

An impromptu “photo booth” added to the fun.

Great Gatsby Photo Booth @ohbotherblog

Any guesses? I suppose it’s not entirely a surprise: I hinted at it months ago, even before I was pregnant… but baby #2’s name will be:

Gatsby William - baby boy name @ohbotherblog

Gatsby William. I guess I should start preparing for him to dislike his name, like I will probably have to for his sister!

I gave my daughter a boy’s name. hopefully she won’t hate me later.


She gave her daughter a boy's name. Will she hate her later? @ohbotherblog

The most common response I get when I tell someone my daughter’s name is, “Oh, that’s different.”

My daughter’s name is Holden. We named her after the protagonist of The Catcher in the Rye, Holden Caulfield. Yes, Holden Caulfield is a boy.

I like to joke that The Catcher in the Rye is one of my favorite books and is one of the only books my husband has ever read. Before I was even pregnant, when the topic of baby names came up, we discussed the name Holden for our child, regardless of gender. My husband was not initially on board with a boy’s name for a girl, but I was persistent.

The Catcher in the Rye - Holden as a baby girl's name @ohbotherblog

One of the coolest girls I knew in college was named Ryan. She was a hot, funny chick with a “boy’s” name. It takes a certain confidence to own a masculine name and flip it on its head, and she had it.

I loved the idea of catching someone off guard with just a name. I envisioned my future daughter going in for a job interview; the interviewer expecting a man, based on the name on her resume. She’d show up, flash the winning smile she got from her mama and nail it.

Our parents weren’t too fond of the name at the start, particularly my mother-in-law. My cousin, Jessie (female), recounted the horrors of being raised a girl with a gender-ambiguous name. But I was resolute.

We decided on Holden Eveleen for a girl. Eveleen was my grandmother’s name. I let my husband choose the middle name if we were to have a boy. He chose Cash. Holden Cash. Say it out loud and let it sink in.

Holden Eveleen was born on June 7, 2012. In the first year of her life, I’ve had to deal with gender confusion over her name several times, particularly at the doctor’s office, where the receptionists assume she is a boy because of her name. It doesn’t upset me; I don’t jump to correct people. I did get Holden’s ears pierced when she was six months old, so that has helped a bit. The fact that she was essentially bald for 11 months, however, has not helped.

I recently read an old post over on You Can’t Call It “It”! that has me a bit alarmed. A 1,669-word lament by a woman named Tyson, the post describes receiving mail addressed to “Mr.”, being considered a draft dodger for not enlisting in the selective service and confusion from wedding vendors and reverends who were hesitant about a “same sex” wedding.

Plunging the dagger even further in my heart, there’s even an eHow article called “How to Deal With Being a Girl With a Boy’s Name.If being a girl with a boy’s name is stressing you out, learn to cope with a few simple strategies.

  1. Do an online search for your name or look in baby name books. Look to see if your name truly is a boy’s name.
  2. Have a sense of humor. It eases your stress and makes you more lovable.
  3. Feminize your name by changing the spelling. Add a few letters or alter a few letters to give your boyish name a girlie look and sound.
  4. If you are truly stressed out by your boyish name, rename yourself. Use your middle name if it is more feminine and makes you more comfortable. Have your name legally changed if you honestly believe it improves your quality of life.

I love my little girl and her boyish name. I’m excited to present her with The Catcher in the Rye in high school so she can learn where her moniker came from. I look forward to her meeting the handsome, well-read boy in college who appreciates her literary namesake (and her parents’ wit). I can’t wait for that job interview when she shatters misconceptions based solely on the name at the top of her resume. But I can’t help but wonder if Holden will be thanking me or cursing me later in life.

If she truly hates her name, I suppose she can go by “Holdy,” the nickname we stumbled upon (hey – number 3 on the list!), or by her middle name, Eveleen (number 4!). I guess if worst comes to worst, I’ll try to remember number 2 when she wants to legally change her name, and maintain my sense of humor so that I can be more lovable.

other (great) gatsby-esque names


Little Gatsby Shirt from littlewakka

Little Gatsby Shirt from littlewakka (etsy)

The Great Gatsby comes out tomorrow! The Great Gatsby comes out tomorrow!

Okay, so I know I’ve already written some posts about The Great Gatsby, but I really do love me some F. Scott Fitzgerald. I’ve seriously read every short story or book he’s ever written and he was the topic of my senior college thesis (along with Ernest Hemingway and William Faulkner).

My husband, however, is not what you would call “a reader.” In fact, he’s only ever read two legitimate books in his life: The Catcher in the Rye, hence our daughter being named Holden, and…. The Great Gatsby. So this has led to some discussion about Gatsby being the name of our next child, boy or girl.

Gatsby as a boy’s name is rising in popularity, thanks to the new movie coming out (tomorrow! woo!), but according to Nameberry, Gatsby is also rising in popularity for girls’ names as well. Hm. I’m not fully convinced that I can go there. Mr. B is all for it, which is odd, considering he was hesitant about using Holden for a girl’s name in the first place.

Nameberry also has a post on Fitzgerald names beyond The Great Gatsby, which has me thinking about other great, Gatsby-esque names that could also be up for consideration:


  • Scottie: F. Scott Fitzgerald’s daughter’s name
  • Amory: This Side of Paradise


  • Percy: The Diamond as Big as the Ritz
  • Anson: The Rich Boy
  • Roscoe: The Curious Case of Benjamin Button


  • Honoria: Babylon Revisited (also the name of the daughter of Fitzgerald’s friends, Gerald and Sara Murphy.)
  • Ailie: The Last of the Belles
  • Marjorie: Bernice Bobs Her Hair
  • Axia: This Side of Paradise

Whaddya think? Should we go for the gold with Gatsby, boy or girl? (ps – I’m totally not pregnant by the way, so it’s a bit of a moot point just now. Or a “moo point,” if you’ve seen that episode of FRIENDS).

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